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Friday, November 6, 2015

So I was talking to this married woman who left her husband for another married man who never did divorce the first wife after all.

She was lamenting on and on about how he used to sweep her off her feet so much so that she left everything, her family, her kids, her husband, for him! And now all he does is hit her in the face (and other places).

Now, nice guys aren't boring. They just don't do what bad guys do - they don't send you on an emotional roller coaster. You will not be the one making all the sacrifices.

And if you really think about it, there are better and healthier ways to get the highs in life - like picking up a new skill or doing things outside your comfort zone - like climbing a mountain (literally) or going for that backpack trip alone. Surprise yourself! With what you can do.

And while you're at it - nice guys, if they are there at all, are there to cheer you on (and up) and catch you if you fall.

When in doubt, never ever fall back on feelings. They are momentary and often they are induced by what may not even be real in the first place. Face the cold hard facts - and make the difficult decisions. These are what will keep you from going astray.